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Seduction used to be considered an art form reserved for the few. This has changed – anyone can learn how to attract a partner. We’ve selected the best for 2022 in this list of seduction books to read.

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Below, under the section on our favourite seduction programmes, are some of our favourite books into the skill of making someone fall for you. But, there’s more to studying seduction than that. As well as being a fascinating on its own, it is also an amplifier to our leadership, sales and influence skills.

This is our selection of the best books and training about seduction in 2022. Each of these seduction approaches is very different, and yet, in its own way, they offer a delightfully complementary approach.


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Top 9 NLP Seduction Books

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

This book is our current favourite and centres on:

  1. Creating an enriching lifestyle.
  2. Overcoming fears and anxieties about socialising, intimacy and sexuality.
  3. Mastering the expression of your emotions, values, desires and fantasies and communicating them fluidly.

It works well with the ‘Master Seducers Handbook’, which takes us through the steps of a seduction.

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Recommended Seduction Books – Models by Mark Manson

 

 

 

 

 

 

From Amazon: Models is the first men’s dating book ever written on seduction as a purely emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them, a process of self-expression rather than manipulation.

It’s the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behaviour, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer.

The Secrets of Female Sexuality

The Secrets of Female Sexuality by David Shade,

I really like this book. An extract – What the are the 4 things women really love:

First, a woman needs to feel appreciated for the unique individual that she is. She needs to feel special, unlike any other woman, and she needs to know that her man supports her in her endeavors.

Second, she needs to feel that deep, intimate emotional connection. She needs to have that emotional intimacy with her man. It’s a connection she shares only with him.

Third, she needs to feel like a woman. She needs to feel beautiful, sexy, and feminine. She needs to enjoy all those things that come with being a woman.

Finally, she needs hot, passionate sex. She needs to be seduced, enticed, teased, and satisfied, over and over again. She needs to experience new things, in new ways, including fantasies and roles.

Note: This book is more about the mind than the body, its about sparking the mind, appealing to her mental sexuality, and the body will follow, rather than more direct physical stuff.

The secrets of female sexuality
The secrets of female sexuality

From Amazon: Women can only get all the things they really want when men know these truths, but women cannot speak these truths because that would violate all the rules. Society covers up these truths to maintain order, but it leaves women unfulfilled and men confused. Men are further frustrated by the seemingly contradictory logic of women.

She wants a ‘nice guy’ yet she is addicted to a self-absorbed jerk. Has a woman ever cried on your shoulder because the bad boy that she is so in love with is inconsiderate while you are a respectful ‘good guy’? What is this power that bad boys have? They operate outside of social norms, and thus know the secrets. After many years in development, the book that needed to be written reveals the truths hidden behind social programming and explains the female mind with perfect clarity.

The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love

The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love

This book suggests that for a successful long-term relationship, we need attraction, friendship and partnership. Each relates to a different area of our brains – if any of these areas are missing, we’re unlikely to stay together, and all areas may require working on.

The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love by [Paul Dobransky]
Recommended Seduction Books – The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love by Paul Dobransky

From Amazon: Introduces a nine-step program designed to help readers find love, examining the three stages of a successful romantic relationship–attraction, bonding in friendship, and commitment–and explaining how to use them to build enduring love.

The Master Seducer’s Handbook: Secrets of the Art of Smooth Seduction

The Master Seducer’s Handbook: Secrets of the Art of Smooth Seduction

This a great book on many levels and takes the reader through the various stages of seduction. It is also an excellent book for demonstrating seduction as an application of NLP and hypnosis.

The Master Seducer's Handbook: Secrets of the Art of Smooth Seduction by [John Cliff]
Recommended Seduction Books – The Master Seducer’s Handbook by John Cliff

From Amazon: Forget about nerves and corny pick-up lines; this book will teach you how to win all the women you want by being the sort of man women love to be seduced by – charming and articulate, able to use your voice and body language to attract girls to you, expert at leading a girl into intimacy.

The Rational Male

by Rollo Tomassi 

The Rational Male

Essential reading for men, do you want a blue pill? (Read what will make you feel really good, but it’s unlikely to move you forward) Or a red pill? (Potentially very, very uncomfortable, but if you activate it, will help you be significantly more successful. This is the ultimate ‘no-nonsense’ book to stop guys being unintentionally used. Read it as an insurance policy – feel free to reject it, but only reject it based on actual experience – not what others or society tells you.

The Rational Male
The Rational Male

From Amazon: “The Bible of the Red Pill”, The Rational Male® is a rational and pragmatic approach to intersexual dynamics and the social and psychological underpinnings of intergender relations. The book is the compiled, ten-year core writing of author/blogger Rollo Tomassi from therationalmale.com. 

Rollo Tomassi is one of the leading voices in the globally growing, male-focused online consortium known as the “Manosphere”.

Outlined are the concepts of positive masculinity, the feminine imperative, plate theory, operative social conventions and the core psychological theory behind Game awareness and the “red pill” ideology. Tomassi explains and outlines the principles of intergender social dynamics and the foundational reasoning behind them.

The Everything Orgasm Book

The Everything Orgasm Book: The all-you-need guide to the most satisfying sex you’ll ever have (Everything®) 

by Amy Cooper (Author)

Most of the books here are about mental seduction, this is an excellent book that includes both the mental and physical aspects of orgasm.

The Everything Orgasm Book
The Everything Orgasm Book

From Amazon

Giving incredible orgasms, receiving really great orgasms, and everything in between: You will find all the pleasure tips you need in this guide. Clinical sexologist Amy Cooper shows you how to:

  • Achieve multiple orgasms
  • Self-pleasure with more satisfaction
  • Harmonize with your lover
  • Find erogenous zones
  • Sustain longer-lasting orgasms
  • Talk dirty, give lap dances, and perform stripteases
  • Use sex toys, props, aphrodisiacs, and erotica

With something for everyone, this book is the definitive guide to extreme pleasure between the sheets. This book will have you experiencing the “Big O” as you never have before.”

I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

An excellent book for understanding orgasm and how to help women achieve a great orgasm (also highlights the important responsibility a woman has in owning her own orgasms.)

Recommended Seduction Books – I Love Female Orgasm by Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller.

From Amazon: Whether you’re celebrating your thousandth female orgasm, searching for your first, or cheering on your girlfriend or wife, women and men across the country agree: I Love Female Orgasm! I Love Female Orgasm is crammed with everything you want to know about the big O.

The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

This book is an eye-opener that sex on its own can be addictive and lead to all sorts of challenges. A very brave book for Neil Strauss to write. Not for the faint-hearted!

The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships by [Neil Strauss]
Recommended Seduction Books – The Truth by Neil Strauss

From Amazon: Neil Strauss made a name for himself advocating freedom, sex and opportunity as the author of The Game. Then he met the woman who forced him to question everything.

Neil’s search for answers took him from Viagra-laden free-love orgies to sex addiction clinics, from cutting-edge science labs to modern-day harems, and, most terrifying of all, to his own mother. What he discovered changed everything he knew about love, sex, relationships and, ultimately, himself. The Truth may have the same effect on you.

Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction

Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction

This is a great book summarising the latest scientific research on seduction. The book focuses on:

  1. Becoming attractive.
  2. Creating attraction.
  3. Building attraction.
  4. Maintaining attraction.

Like all the seduction books here, what it suggests is often counterintuitive and as such, a bit of a wake-up call.

Recommended Seduction Books – Atomic Attraction by Christopher Canwell.

From Amazon: If you want to be a man that 80% of women desire, this book is your key. Based on over 120 scientific studies, this book is the ultimate guide to creating and maintaining attraction with women.

Attraction doesn’t grow in a warm, safe environment, it grows in a swamp of discomfort and anxiety. This is just one of many truths you’re about to discover. In Atomic Attraction, Christopher Canwell takes us on a journey through the dark waters of attraction. What turns women on? What makes them choose one man over another? And how can you become truly desirable and attractive?

This book answers these questions by combining the latest scientific research with real-life case studies to show you, the reader, how to ignite the fires of attraction and captivate those around you.

My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies 

by Nancy Friday 

My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies

A great book to find out what women fantasise about!

My Secret Garden
My Secret Garden

From Amazon: The #1 New York Times–bestselling author’s “groundbreaking” work on women’s sexual fantasies (Publishers Weekly).
 
First published in 1973, My Secret Garden ignited a firestorm of nationwide reactions—from outrage to enthusiastic support. Collected from detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, this book presents a bracingly honest account of women’s inner sexual fantasy lives. In its time, this book shattered taboos and opened up a conversation about the landscape of feminine desire in a way that was unprecedented.
 
Today, My Secret Garden remains one of the most iconic works of feminist literature of our time—and is still relevant to millions of women throughout the world.

The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved 

by Matthew Kelly 

The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved

Great book to help us increase intimacy. From superficial (albeit sometimes useful) cliches to sharing what we really need.

The Seven Levels of Intimacy
The Seven Levels of Intimacy

From Amazon: We all yearn for intimacy, but we avoid it. We want it badly, but we often run from it. At some deep level, we sense that we have a profound need for intimacy, but we are afraid to go there. Why?

We avoid intimacy because having intimacy means exposing our secrets. Being intimate means sharing the secrets of our hearts, minds, and souls with another fragile and imperfect human being. Intimacy requires that we allow another person to discover what moves us, what inspires us, what drives us, what eats at us, what we are running toward, what we are running from, what self-destructive enemies lie within us, and what wild and wonderful dreams we hold in our hearts.

In The Seven Levels of Intimacy, Matthew Kelly teaches us in practical and unforgettable ways how to know these things about ourselves and how to share ourselves more deeply with the people we love. This book will change the way you approach your relationships forever!


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